Holidays suck. This used to be my favorite time of the year, now I cannot wait for it to be over with. The constant battling between parents, the tension, the expectations and the lack of communication is too much for one to handle.
Don't be such a dictator. Talk to your kids about what they want to do during the holidays. Do not just assume. Don't punish your kids because your mad at the other parent. In fact, get over whatever your mad about and work together on raising your kids.
Your youngest kids are texting their big sister and asking what days they get to see her and when they get to see dad. Tell them the plan. They may seem like they are okay going with the flow, but truth is nobody can live in limbo and be okay.
sincerely,
the big sister
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